Sex Toys for Seniors: Embracing Pleasure at Any Age

The conversation about sex for the younger population seems to be everywhere and yet, it seems as though seniors have missed out on joining in. An important aspect we need to talk about more is the various intimate aids available to enhance physical pleasure, regardless of age, such as using a strapon for a change in dynamic or exploring other stimulating toys. After all, there is no expiration date on desire.

The perception that senior citizens should not, or do not, have sexual desires or ought not to explore different facets of their sexuality is unfounded and a remnant of outdated puritanical thinking. It also tends to ignore the fact that our seniors are a diverse group with a wide range of interests and orientations, and yes, that includes their feelings on intercourse and intimacy as well.

Details about elderly intimacy remain shrouded due to stereotypes and misconceptions. Nevertheless, research indicates that sexual activity and satisfaction are essential components of the overall health and well-being of seniors. Just like claiming your social security benefits, there is no reason why you shouldn't claim your sexual satisfaction, too.

Sex toys can contribute to healthier intimacy

The physically and emotionally rewarding aspects of intimacy remain throughout life. Yet, some seniors might encounter beauty norms, physical discomfort, or limited mobility causing strain on their relationships and self-esteem. Something as simple as incorporating playthings like vibrators, dildos, and strap-on aids into the bedroom could drastically enhance comfort and satisfaction.

These products help to overcome physical barriers, alleviate performance anxiety, and bring in an element of fun, exploration, and rejuvenated eroticism in the bedroom. Additionally, these instruments can actually improve sexual health by promoting arousal, maintaining vaginal elasticity, or relieving erectile dysfunction.

How to get started: Navigating the world of adult toys

If you're new to the world of sex toys, the wide array of products might seem intimidating. Here are a few things to consider when looking for a product that suits you:

• Consider what you're interested in exploring and what feels comfortable for you. It might take some trial and error to refine your preferences.
• Check the product materials: Make sure they are body-safe. Look for non-porous materials, like silicone, glass, or stainless steel.
• If online descriptions feel overwhelming, consider going to a brick-and-mortar store where the staff can provide guidance without judgment.

Bottom Line: Pleasure has no age limit

In conclusion, seniors don't have to avoid sexual pleasure as they age. By involving sex toys into their intimate practices, seniors can continue to maintain a sexually active life while improving their health and overall well-being at the same time. Pleasure has no age limit, after all, so let's start de-stigmatizing and normalizing the use of intimacy aids for our older adults. They deserve to embrace pleasure, just like the rest of us.